One of Elizabeth's MANY egg customers was an old man who
lived a couple of miles down the road. He lived well below the poverty level and had serious heart problems.
I am sad to say that I don’t remember his name—I don’t even
know for sure that I ever knew his name. What I do know, however, is that every
other week he would knock on our door and politely ask to purchase a dozen
eggs; handing me a crumpled dollar and the empty egg carton from his previous
visit.
One fall day, however, after asking for his eggs, he asked
if I thought we could spare a few walnuts. He quickly went on to say he’d be
happy to pick them up himself, but that he’d sure like a few.
Without hesitation I told him he could have all the walnuts
he wanted. I told them he could also have the sack full I’d picked up earlier in the
day that was leaning against the shed and that if he needed something to put them in I
would get him some feed sacks as soon as I checked on the baby, who was sleeping. He thanked me, but said he’d brought a few
buckets just in case I said yes. So after putting his eggs in his car he
went over to the walnut tree nearest the road and started picking them up and
putting them into his bucket a few at a time.
A few minutes later the school bus dropped Elizabeth and
Olivia off in front of the house and they came running in asking what ‘the egg
guy’ was doing out by the walnut tree. When I told them I’d said he could take what
he wanted, they both made comments about him being too old and too sick to be
doing that and went to put their things away.
A couple of minutes later I looked out the window to find
both the girls silently helping ‘the egg guy’ pick up walnuts. With their
high-level energy they could pick up several to his one and in no time his
buckets were full.
The girls didn’t have to help. They hated picking up walnuts (and still do). But it makes this mom’s
heart happy to know that even ‘way back then’ helping someone in need took
priority over their own dislikes and displeasures.
My children didn’t learn to put their feelings aside for the
sake of others at school or from a cartoon on television or a book on their
shelf. They learned to have a servant’s heart from seeing others (their dad and
I, Granny, and the adults at church who took the time to love them and pay attention
to them).
I don’t say this to be prideful. I say this because the truth
of the matter is that children really do learn what they live. They take their
cues from you. So ask yourself this question: what are you teaching your children?
Thanks, kids, for being such eager and good students!
Love,
Momma D
Momma D
